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Originally Posted by ladytiger
I told him I don't want a bf and he doesn't want a gf we are both free agents that's the journey I want to start on I have no desire for a long term committed relationship not at my age. Neither does he. We haven't decided on anything taking it slow and still discussing
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Use a condom every time. I think you can do better than this guy who sounds like he has figured out you won't kick for more than the sex he wants to have with you. It might help you "figure out" what you want when you realize that good relationships--of any kind, share many of the same traits: mutual respect; honesty; trust; and fair exchanges--pleasant conversations; good value for a dollar (in business relationships); sharing with one another---time, confidences, needs, wants, etc.
You're only 30? Why wouldn't you want a boyfriend? A nice respectful honest man close to your own age you could go places with; do fun things together; maybe fall in love?
I'll go back to what I wrote before: use a condom
every time. If he is into sex with everyone and sundry, your chances of contracting HIV go way up.