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Originally Posted by BrazenApogee
I'd be honest. Using "when this happens I feel or think this" statements. Open the dialogue.
I understand not wanting a repeat of the bad T experience. My last T was a bad T, no boundaries. I let current T know about him in stages. And I am grateful that current T has good boundaries.
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Thanks, Brazen. It's hard, isn't it? I went online last night and searched in vain for 'wish therapist had tighter boundaries' and the like.
Crickets.
There is just nothing out there. But a deluge of 'I wish my T's boundaries were looser' and 'wish T was my friend'.
I totally get the desire and would judge nobody for it. Been there, done that. But having had the consequences....
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