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Old Aug 14, 2016, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
You don't have to justify yourself. Most all of us on here have dysfunctional relationships of some kind. People on here are supposed to support each other to be healthier and not to judge.

Everybody projects their own stuff on each other's posts, it can't be helped. So it's very understandable that someone who may have been the hurt party of an affair may feel very strongly and lash out.

More importantly, it sounds like your BF has a lot of other problematic stuff going on. Do you keep gravitating to people that aren't good for you?


I have only had two long term relationships: my ex husband and my boyfriend. My bf proposed to me before I even met him, I'll upload a pic of my engagement ring if you want to see it. It's a custom made black pearl and palladium ring. I took it off last September when I found out he hadn't filed for divorce.
He might have Aspergers, he has an appointment with his therapist on Friday.
My ex husband is bipolar, my boyfriend is borderline, yes I've had two very difficult relationships.
My boyfriend does not see our relationship as an affair. As I said he used to be my fiancé until I found out he didn't file. He never kept our relationship secret.

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