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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Another thought was days there and nights in your own place? Because it seems like the homeschooling is a huge factor. And perhaps to keep from feeling overwhelmed, is my thought, to see you as separate as an individual, really let it sink in. Maybe in learning to value he can rebuild upon your marriage if not back immediately to the old routine. Just a thought...
"Interrogate your hidden assumptions."-Cornel West
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My H is really looking forward to us moving back home and sleeping there. He has joked and said "I have slept with our sons more then I have with my wife this past year." They have gone on out of town work related trips several times this year and he had to sleep with one of hte kids.
The way it looks right now, H will get home at 6:00 and I will bring little one back to "our house" every evening at 6:00 also. She goes to bed at 7:30 in order to get ready for school the next day. So during that hour and a half she will shower and get ready for bed and her daddy can spend time with her then if he so chooses.
After she goes to bed, I will do home school wiht our son for a few hours that evening. I will likely give him his assignments shortly after I arrive at 6:00 and I will fill in and help him after 7:30.
At some point in the evening I would like to think H and I would have some time to at least talk a little. We have very different sleep schedules. I go to bed around midnight, he goes to bed around 8 pm. So it is definitely gonna take some juggling.