We're all human, here. We're all a little messed up here, too. Even those who purport not to be...It's all relative after all, isn't it?

I think I might also be co-dependent in my relationship (I really don't know and don't care), I don't see it as a problem for me. I'm happy.

Labels....I don't like unless a professional (preferably more than one) states it so that the appropriate help can be given by everyone...including self-help.

But you have to do what's right for you. Sometimes you don't know what that is at the time and you need a while to figure it out. Posting your thoughts is a good thing imho. Not everyone has to agree with what you say and that is also, I think, a good way to be a stronger person. At least that's what I'm told.

Hugs to all.