Thread: Tough times
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Old Aug 15, 2016, 08:59 AM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by womanhorselvr View Post
I don't think the therapist can guess your expectations of her, why not tell her exactly how you hope the relationship would end, see how she responds before you get hurt
I don't even want to end the relationship but I almost let it go into whatever direction it would take. I told her that I wanted to go to session but that I have a hard time talking and she said why come in if that's the case instead of her encouraging me to talk or looking for an alternative. That's when I realized that it's not going to work. she knows I have a diificult time talking but won't assist because that's my job. She has a 24hr cancelation policy and she allowed me to cancel that day up until anytime that day because she said that there was no point in wasting my time. This is not her norm but it became her norm the last few months. There was a big change in her after my last break where she said I disrespected her.bwe spoke about it during a session to square things out but regardless of that she was still upset. I could tell there was something there where she was more disconnected and not so much in tune with me. Now it's been over a week since the termination. My kids still go to her establishment to see their therapist and she's really caring and fantastic. I just have to sit this one out. I'm not sure what else to do. She's just probably tired of me and I get it.