One can post on relationship forum even if they aren't in a relationship. One can get support regardless.

But in a situation with this man, it is extremely confusing as you post a bit contradictory things, if you aren't in a relationship with him then it's confusing when you call him boyfriend or a partner. Just recently, certainly less than a year ago, you said you are getting married and were upset that he spent 2k on something without discussing with you but now turns out he is married to someone else and you aren't even in a relationship with him. It's confusing. It's hard to be helpful when situations are presented in a contradictory manner

Also when you get replies you don't like, you add more confusing details that makes it even more confusing.

If he is your ex and you are devastated that he lied he was married and you are trying to cope with it, then it's very different situation and it is very understandable you are hurt and i really feel sorry as its a painful situation. No one wants to be lied to. Hang in there

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