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Originally Posted by Fharraige
I don't see it being an excuse when you're not emotionally capable of being independent. Independence requires a certain amount of emotional stability. Forcing someone to be independent when they're not emotionally equipped to handle it is a recipe for disaster. I think there should be some more importance on whether emotional stability is sufficient enough to handle a fully independent lifestyle.
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That's exactly how I feel about it not emotionally stable enough to be independent and it is very hard because the worse I get emotionally with my unpredictableness and anger that sometimes doesn't make any sense to logical. Also taking people's words so literally whenever someone says a criticism to improve. Somehow though Antonio my cousins fiance has somehow made me understand that people's criticism is related to my behaviours which was something I never understood before. With that new understanding I was able to clean my cousins house and make the steps to change.