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Originally Posted by jpb4815
RX I am so sorry that you are going through this, my probably soon to be ex wife asked for a similar unrealistic living situation from me. I can't imagine how hard that must be. Have you asked him to really listen to you and your point of view. I know one thing that I have learned in the last year is that it takes work to really listen to your partner.
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Yes I've been begging him to research more on my Illnesses... Why he shouldn't bring home alcohol etc. He keeps bringing up the horrible stuff I did that night but he was hitting me too. He says it was self defense and I said "you don't hit a woman back, you restrain them". Who knows maybe I'm in the wrong and expect too much. I did this to myself. It's me who broke up the family. But he expects us to live in seperate homes when he's been my only income since I lost my job due to my illness. I said I'm not going to be with someone who wants to sit back and watch me lose everything
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