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Originally Posted by divine1966
It sounds really rough and painful. I am sorry. I don't think you can change these people and the best you can do it just accept sad reality. They sound toxic. Unfortunately it often happens in extended families especially if there was divorce. I hope you have other things in your life that you can enjoy so you can move on. Send you hugs
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Hi Divine1966, thank you for your reply. You are correct, they are toxic. I used to have other things in my life, but I've put so much time dwelling on how things got so screwed up, what the heck happened, how could I have been a better sister, how do I do the right thing, are my actions going to upset the others, needing to get permission, that I've let the things I enjoy slip away. I need my life back, desperately. The support here and the message boards are wonderful. Sometimes it helps to hear others say what I've thought to myself for a long time. Vindication!
Meeshell