I don't mind when people cancel because, now that I have depression, I see things from a different viewpoint...not saying that everyone has depression of course, but I never considered in the past that there might be a problem...now I do.

So...I cancel at the last minute because I always hope against hope that I can join in on the fun.

Also, my phone is and always has been, there for my own convenience. If I am doing something else my phone is not my priority. And being offended because you know someone is online rather than answer the phone to you, strikes me as a little wrong imho. (Sorry, just giving a differing opinion).

I have been known to leave my phone off for days. It's always off at night. I don't always bring it with me when I go out, and I never answer it if I am face to face with a human being.

I am odd I suppose...