Wow. Present therapist is absolutely right - she should have been trained in handling transference and she forgot the very simple necessity of putting the client's needs first. Are you sure she was qualified or just calling herself one? I just saw in another thread: "she has texted me several times, to promote her new practice, ask for referrals, ask for a final termination session that we never had to process things" - she sounds selfish and irresponsible. She made it about her own needs and issues.