Idk the answer to your question...


My dad died when I was 25 I'm 32 now and my mom looks like she has one foot in the grave (dementia + cancer) so I have 1.5 dead parents, whether she survives the cancer or not.


The thought of losing my mom as well, it initially scared me shytless, but now some days I wish she'd just get it over with because she clearly has no will left to live and its painful to watch... It's like she's enjoying suffering.


Idk how we cope. I guess we just put one foot in front of the other and adjust to our new realities without parents...