mine is overthinking things.
i do it all the time... all, the time
my other one is constantly talking about me.. i'll have a conversation with someone, and it always end up being aboug what i suffer from, or how i'm feeling, etc.. i do care what other people say and about their feelings, but i always seem to bring it back to myself
recent example: a friend of mine was worried about leaving home and his parents and living alone, and asked me how it feels.. and my first response was, oh well.. my parents were abusive- just leave them
god i felt terrible. it wasn't what i wanted to actually say at all, just what came out
oh.. finding words for stuff and expressing myself. it's fair enough me writing it down, and i can do that, but that does not work all the time- and it's unhealthy not being able to tell someone face to face.
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