I'm a huge people pleaser and find people often walk all over me. I've recently moved into a new house and my new housemate talks ALOT and never listens to me.

This is a recurring pattern in my life (Interestingly, this is the same relationship I have with my dad. He needs a lot of attention and talks a lot, but doesn't ever listen when I talk) but I've had enough.

After my housemate left for work today my head was sore and I felt drained, angry and upset. I can't go on like this but I don't know how to make it stop. I need to put myself first but I also share a space with this girl so will inevitably be spending time with her. What should I do?? Any advice would be great.