Oh wow Lola, I am really sorry your t reacted like this. Sounds atrocious. She almost set up your therapy so you would develop feelings for her, candles, romantic music, telling you everything you wanted to here. I am always disgusted when I hear stories like this. How on earth could somebody (a t) nor understand how easy it is to develop feelings for our therapists. It's natural and means our t is meeting some of our needs. I am sorry she felt like this, it shows a lot about her own feelings. She sounds homophobic. Asking if you masterbated whilst thinking of her what therapeutic value does that have for you and it's almost voyeuristic. She is incredibly sick and doesn't understand sexuality or relationships.

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