Im gonna be honest here. I am constantly cancelling on people.
I usually over book and get exhausted and just cant do it. Or my husband is sick and needs me. Or the kids.

What i like is when people text me the day before just to say, hey are we still on?
Because then i can reevaluate and cancel at that time.
If ibdont get a heads up, ill end up calling or texting 30mins prior to the meet and cancel and explain why.

But never been no show.

Im not unreliable, friends can depend on me for emergencys and for fun times. But they know if they are not in my calendar they dont exist. I even calendar in phone calls. My mom had to tell me that she needs to have a once a week talk with me at minimum. Because i would just be off the grid. So now she is scheduled in.

Just my pov from the constant canceller


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