An issue I have that used to barely bother me but due to recent events has become incredibly painful is that I can't have children. It's sort of shot almost to the top of my priority list of things to deal with in therapy. I have actually touched on it with all three, but not gone deeper than mentioning it.

So I'm wondering if anyone here has dealt with an issue like that in therapy? Was it helpful and how? Did you see someone in specialized in women's issues or someone who had their own experience of infertility? (Nos. 1 and 3 would have been more likely candidates to do it with than No. 2, who is the only one I'm seeing right now and is really a trauma specialist.). I'm basically looking for recommendations on how to go about it when it's time.

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