You have a lot of judgment toward her being a stripper and promiscuous in her past. A lot of people don't feel there's anything wrong with that, especially when she told you that trauma caused her low self esteem and she's grown.

You say she was probably a prostitute. Are you just judging and condemning her by assuming that? Did she say she took money for sex?

If I were her I would want to find someone to be in a relationship with who didn't think I was a reminder of 'what they hate more than anything in life'. Nobody wants to be with someone who thinks they are superior to you.