what did she do that made you think she was annoyed by the phone call??

i think im annoying my T 85% of the time. i ask him if i am....straight up. or if hes mad at me, or what ever. i ask to check it out and slow down/stop the insane obsessive thoughts in my mind. there was one time he told me i did annoy him, but it was understandable. cuz i was being annoying and because he was honest with me that time i know hes not gonna lie to me if i ask