I really appreciate how you are stimulating the conversation about complex ptsd.

My understanding is that complex ptsd and bpd share a lot in common, and therefore a lot of the issues that would come up for a person with bpd would also come up for a person with complex ptsd.

I had a long term therapist, 6 years, and at that point in my life that was my longest (healthy) relationship.

I am not sure about any transference or counter transference issues but I do remember my therapist saying to me that he was surprised that I didn't get mad at him very often.

Does this help?