Malady... remember if you ever really need to chat, to tell us so! Say something like: hey guys, I really need to talk about something or such... we often have more than one chat going on in the room (sigh, we have that habit, need to learn to break off into the other rooms! But chatting is fairly new to this site, I mean, in the crowdedness it has become...we we are in a bad habit that worked for us with small groups before..)

I have left many other sites because of the lack of civility in the chat rooms. While there isn't always a moderator online, often there is, and someone can notify them. We also have the ability to ignore someone in chat, and recently we had a "professional" voyeur we think LOL and agreed if they came back we would remind each other via pm and ignore him (chat)
DocJohn asked him to go along his way... if he returned, he's hiding well!

Now .. did I go off topic too??? lol