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Originally Posted by peaceseeker16
The thing is i know deep down and in my heart that she has changed. Who she is now, is exactly who she has always wanted to be. So I dont doubt her genuineness for a second. I believe she has finally found her path and i believe this new path is the one she will always follow... In fact, many times, she keeps even myself grounded. This is not the issue. The issue is my head, my thoughts, my memory... Im triggered by everything.
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OK, you've just answered your own question.
You, perhaps more than her, need HELP.
If this was my issue (and it used to be) I'd go looking for help with my thinking and feelings in any way possible. I'd start with a counselor or a (cheap) support group such as ACOA, or CODA (google them) and learn how to manage these disturbing thoughts and feelings and NOT look for ways to fix or change your girl friend. Leave it up to her to go looking for help, if she feels a need for it.
good luck fixing your own mental issues, jim
