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Old Aug 17, 2016, 05:59 PM
Cleo6 Cleo6 is offline
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Last session which was just before kids broke up from school but its been playing on my mind as im seeing her again on mon I was talking to t and I remembered about a letter I received from my ex that was abusive nearly 2 weeks before so I told her about it and she got frustrated with me saying about why have I left it til now to tell her and I said I don't know I've just remembered and she said I've done it before as well. I felt really bad after that we talked about the letter a bit and I did open up and told her stuff about things that had happened and she thanked me for telling her and in the end we had enough time as I needed to stop as it was getting to much. Has anyone else's therapist had a go at them for last minute discussions. I had honestly forgotten about that letter as I had pushed it out of my mind as I'd been so busy and I only see the once a fortnight and I'd received the letter just after the last session and a lot of other things had happened since then. I also remember another one I did but the only reason it happened was because I had planned to bring something hard up and all through the session I was trying to bring it up but couldn't then I managed to finally but we didn't really talk about it as she made a brief comment about it then kept topic moving. I thought she would of noticed it was difficult cos as I was saying it my voice went all wobbly and for the first time I nearly cried but I haven't brought that topic back up. I was hoping she would of but she hasn't.

Has anyone else had their t get frustrated with them due to this. Also how can I try to bring things up easier at the beginning as I dont want to make her annoyed. If you left anything to the end did your t bring the subject up at the next session if she could tell that you found it difficult. My t only communicates out of session if it's to do with appointment making and she like me to say everything so I can't write it and give it to her
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