thank you for the nice words. i guess it wouldn't or couldn't hurt to go back i have not seen her the t in about 1 yr. we would just talk and she would sit so far away. i don't know i think my marriage could benfit from this i have very bad parinoia. most about him cheeting on me. funny thing is he never would. it was all those other guys who i would get close to who would. never very close to my father he worked alot i guess to keep us afloat. but even to day i mean i don't call him by his first name or anything i call him dad. he's my orig. dad. my parents were pretty cool when i was acting good they let my bff move in because her mother was going through rehab. they couldn't be all that bad to take in another mouth to feed. im off the point sorry i think i will call her tomorrow and see how long it is to get in. have a good rest of the weekend girls.-onyx