Everyone walks their own path. There is nothing horrible about stripping. There is also nothing wrong with prostitution - aside from how the women are treated.

Those may not be mainstream opinions, but it was her body and her life. She can do what she wants with them. The person who molested her did what they wanted with her body and life - and there is nothing alright with that (I know you agree with that).

She deserves better than what you are giving her. She deserves someone who understands that the abuse she suffered caused her to make choices that she has made and has now changed.

She is one person. Not two. If you feel disgust for her past, then you feel disgust for her. That is not a healthy relationship for her to be in.