Though I believe OP may have issues of his own, I imagine the majority of healthy men/women would feel concerned, and may even feel disgusted.

I would not want to have a relationship with a stripper or a prostitute. That goes against the kind of life I want to build with my partner, and I don't think that is conducive to eventually starting a family together. A healthy family.

Yes, she can do what she wants with her life. The same way you can do what you want with yours. But so can everyone else. I can decide that I don't want to have to deal with someone else's BS, or disorder. Wanting to be with someone who I can have a healthy relationship with does not make me a bad person. What types of people are attracted to unhealthy relationships? Unhealthy people. They don't ignore the other person's disorder because they're this special one-of-a-kind person, they do so because they are damaged themselves in one way or another.

It seems therapy teaches people that there's no concept of right and wrong when it comes to morals, etc, and no one should judge another person. That is absurd. I think we need to get back to living in the real world. No one is obliged to deal with another person's dysfunction for the rest of their lives.