sorry that it is you maymie... it should be no one... i want an ideal world (sigh)...

same type things happened to me so i can understand... i think sometimes in a dysfunctional atmosphere those who feel the most insecurity express it in the worst way...

i should say that "getting even" never worked for me... i think and believe the best way to handle such things is to treat others the way you would want to be treated...

time does not always give an instant blessing... remember that some day you will break away, find your own place and hopefully then, away from the battles, you will find a way to love and forgive... they suffer too...

but for now... stay strong in your dreams, find safe places wherever they may be, love yourself like your own best friend... sometimes it's all we have... hugs...