Oh, I forgot to add this -- might be the most obvious mirroring she does.
I use the F word a fair amount in session (never directed at her though). She is really very very prim and proper and generally uptight-ish.
But, when I get going on the swearing, she joins in sometimes -- it's really rather hilarious to watch because it's totally out of sync with how she appears (and completely in sync with how I come across).
A while ago, she went one step further and as I was saying that I really didn't want to show up for sessions, she was like "Oh yeah, so along with saying F-it to everything else in your life, you're also like F my therapist".
It was one of the few times we were in total agreement.
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