Not sure if this is the right place, but it was the closest to family issues i could find.

At summer camp today, my 4 year old son was asked by an 8 year old girl "ill buy you ice cream if you take out your penis". He did it. They were in a corner with another 8 year old girl and my 5 year old son.
Then she pulled down her pants and showed her butt.

My son knows this was wrong. Immediatley when i picked them up he confessed while we were still there.

So i took both boys, me and my husband and the manager to a private room and sat around the table and asked for the whole story. We talked about private parts, not doing something you know is wrong even if someone older tells you to or bribes you with a gift etc.
He understands the whole thing was wrong.

The manager left and talked to the girl, 2 minutes later she came in and apologized to the boys and to us.

The manager said she will call the girls parents immediatley. I trust that she did. Shes great at her job.

There is tomorrow and next week before camp is over. I dont want her near my kids. If they dont kick her out, im not sure what to do.

The incident happened during movie time. They were supervised, but the room was dimly lit and they were sitting on the ground against the wall. I dont believe there is a supervision issue.

I have been googling all afternoon freaked out!
I was abused sexually as a child and i believe something like this could scar my boys. There was no touching luckily, but i believe there could have been if the supervision was lower.

What do i do!?!?

I thought about calling dss, but my husband said wait until tomorrow to see how the camp handles it first.

Opinions?

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