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Old Aug 18, 2016, 05:24 PM
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Haha, true, and I've thought about that a lot, too. I guess that comes down to whether I ever medically transition or not. I've pretty much come to the realization that I very well may never medically transition (surgery or hormones) due to financial barriers. But that doesn't necessarily mean that won't change in the future. You know? So, what I've been thinking about a lot is... would it be easier for her to call me mommy until then, and then cross that bridge when we get there? Or would it just be easier to go by something like papa or maddy so there will be no bridge to cross when/if we get there. Aye, it's definitely complicated. Cis people are lucky in that they don't have to overthink titles like this. They don't have to consider comfort of other people, comfort of themselves, etc. When we choose them, we often have to think about both.

I've considered doing a blog. It would definitely give me something to do with all this free time I have lol. It's not too common. I was always afraid of carrying as I've seen that even in the community there's a stigma attached to trans men who do. But I've, also, seen more and more of us making the news. I didn't, but I'm glad for that as I do hate attention haha.
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