Yeah, it's probably not a good idea to talk about your separation on FB. It seems like you still love her, and in an ideal world, you would still be together, right? After all, you encouraged her to try counseling etc. because you wanted her to give you a second chance.

If I were in your shoes and I wanted support, I would talk to the people I trust the most... for example, my best friend (if I ever had one). Stay away from people who are both of your friends. Talk to your guy friends or guys at work.

I think it's good to keep the support "offline" and away from social media. Don't even post cryptic things on Facebook like "I'm having a rough time right now" because she'll get wind of it.

But, I must say... anyone who hates being around their own kids is a red flag.