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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
jpb4815,
Is she going to T herself or just the couples Therapist? I imagine she's planing on leaving as the kids plan to stay with you? She maybe needs a break from her life. She may feel stuck. It may have nothing to do with you in IP, just sucky timing. There's support here on PC as well as the BP board there's a divorce and separation board. I would be very wary of telling anyone in real life until you figure out the logistics but then again I am a very private person. The one person I talk to (besides PC) when I want a divorce is T. No one else in our families/friends knows how close to divorce we have come. It would be nice to have extra support but it's not worth creating animosity between him and my friends/family.
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Thanks to everybody, I really don't know why obsess over doing these things that I know are dysfunctional and unhealthy. I haven't told anybody save for a friend in India.
I was willing to forgive the infidelity and the hell she has put me through is she would get her act together and start therapy. Then she came home and told me about wanting to seperate and how she needed time from the kids because she hates them right now.she also told me that she wishes I would just get over my BP. I think that made me realize that I am done. I have been pondering that lately but that kind of cements it.
You all are right. Stupid and tacky move to post it. I will get the support of the friends that really count I guess once word gets out.