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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours
I agree with those who said that you should consider telling her....for *your* sake. And, that walking away is likely not going to work.....again for *you*.
So, do you think you could just email (or drop a note at her office) her your "confession"? That way you have some space / distance to deal with it yourself (and the effort of writing with the ultimate goal of letting her know might help clarify some stuff for you)? And, also you're not stuck with trying to deal with whatever stuff she comes up with in session?
And, after that, you could figure out what you'd like to do? If you want to go in and speak to her, tell her in the email (or however you make an appointment) that you'd like to do so. Or, if you want to just terminate and would like a last session, say that beforehand as well?
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Thanks. Yes, I have thought about potentially writing out my whole confession and sending it to her before going back--but I'm afraid that will give her a chance to prepare her "rebuttal." And then there I'll be once again struggling to respond, feeling, as always, like I'm at a disadvantage. And if I don't go back, is there really any point in confessing? I suppose it would clear my conscience to some extent . . . maybe that's the answer--confess and run! Not sure I could face her once I admitted what I did (even though she already knows). I don't know if she wants me to tell her WHAT I know or HOW I know it or just admit that I sought out the info on her.