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Old Aug 18, 2016, 11:18 PM
Anonymous50005
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
I have more of a problem with outright Christian counsellors than people with private beliefs. However, many Christians would see my main problem as being an atheist. If I am not "saved" that person may see me as doomed until my religious status changed. I have looked up some therapists that we're not Christian counsellors per se but touted it on their profiles or websites. If it was a friend or coworker I take no issue with their beliefs as long as it does not impinge on the rights and happiness of others. I need someone from a worldview that is not alien to mine.
I've had two VERY personally religious therapists (one was as deacon in his church and one was a minister), but neither one of them EVER brought up religion -- ever. They were completely therapy-focused. My most recent therapist only brought religion up after I had brought it up. By the way,not all Christians work from the concept of "being saved". That's a particular focus of certain denominations (generally on the more fundamentalist end) but not all of them (I am of a denomination that doesn't speak in those terms). That's why I am saying that they may just advertise that way because, let's face it, this area of Texas is in the "Bible belt" and there are many people who look for a therapist who specifically does have a Christian background, but a Christian background doesn't necessarily mean because they advertise that way that they will pass judgment or bring it into their practice. You may just have to call or interview and ask very pointed questions about religion to see what response you get.

The only time I ran into it was at a particular therapy-group that absolutely did advertise themselves as Christian-based/focused therapy. I mean, they had a cross on their practice logo, etc. I'm a Christian, and I didn't like it either because it was not my Christian practice at all (we are a wide-ranging breed of religion -- as most religions are). I went into that one wary from the onset because generally if they say Christian-based/focused/directed, then they are probably rather fundamentalist. But I don't know of too many practices that are that religiously-focused in this area.
Thanks for this!
growlycat, unaluna