I agree wholeheartedly with the above posts.


I remember that specific childhood curiosity quite well, we knew it was naughty, thus bribery is "understandable" in such a situation, because you want to see what the big secret is.


Even the age gap i can "understand" it would obviously be tough for this girl to get someone her own age to cure her curiosity, a younger child is obviously more susceptible to bribery... As stated she did not attempt to touch him, so i wouldn't lose my mind just yet.


Kids have no need for dim lit rooms, its not a movie theatre and they're not adults. Ask them to fix the lighting to prevent such an instance from happening again.


When my friends and i were naughty, showing off our bits, I wasn't violated in that instance, but I'm sure that if my parents had made a big deal, I would've felt "harmed".


Disclaimer: I'm in no way trying to minimize this experience for you, just offering a different POV.