I'm not sure what to say that will help as I've never had a bad experience, I just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you.
I can really feel your pain about T2 from reading this post and I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Is this the T that wouldn't have you back because of the ethics? From what you have said I feel it is more T2's issue rather than yours, and she got too emotionally involved and couldn't deal with her own issues.

I hope you find some relief from this, I know how painful attachment and maternal transference can be. I've been there!

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