I read this far. Don't really need to see how much more happened. You don't live with him, you are in an optimal position to quit the relationship. Leave before it does (and it will) get even worse. Before you succumb to the weakness whatever it is that keeps you coming back for more and end up moving in with him and are really stuck. Please, there is nothing to redeem or fix in this relationship. He is through and through a horrible bf and abusive af.

Get out of the relationship now as others have said here and work on yourself. find your own strength and independence and seek out help to find out why it is that you would even find a person that is abusive worth your time or energy to be with. I think workin on those things I just mentioned will put you in a far better place to find a proper bf/mate.

Hope this helps.