((toffeellen)),

I have to commend you on your insightfulness. When I was in my early 20's I was not even close to being aware of my "stuff." So now, in middle age I am dealing with "stuff" I could have been done with years ago.

Our issues present to us in life when we are ready to deal with them. Maybe you are lucky? I know it doesn't feel that way.

Oh, I hate it when T just looks at me when I say something. Isn't it maddening?

Best of luck...and yes, it is sooo frustrating and difficult.

Peace