Thanks!
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Originally Posted by leomama
That is a good question. I have been learning a lot about the red flags of narcissism and I'm not sure that the issue of compatibility came up. What did come up was deal breakers. That would be a good list to have when you are dating. I hope that is useful.
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What are these deal breakers?
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I am more aware of compatibility on a needs scale. There is also the book on The Five Love Languages -Dr. Gary Chapman.
I agree about deal breakers. Awareness of red flags isn't limited to narcissism, in my experience.
Is there something specific that you have in mind when asking about emotional compatibility?
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What is this needs scale?
I don't find the five love languages all-encompassing enough but I can't put it into words what else may be there other than those five ones.
I also can't yet put into words what I was specifically thinking of with the emotional compatibility. But it's to do with those love languages (beyond those five ones), I think...?
Maybe if you write more about the needs scale or deal breakers or something I'll be able to identify this.
Sorry for sounding so vague. I'm just trying to figure out what was going wrong in my relationship before.