I agree that 4 sessions in may be too soon to get to the deep stuff. Often clients need more time to open up about the hard stuff. And what Longing said-he may well be making sure you are safe before going after anything.

On the other hand, some ts think that letting the client lead is a good idea, which may leave you feeling like you just ramble if you are looking for more direction from t.

I think it is fine to tell t what you are thinking and see how he answers.