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Originally Posted by Michelea
As someone who has been at the crossroad you are at (I have 23 year old twin sons), I think stepping back is the best thing to do.
It was an extremely difficult decision for me, so I understand your concerns about this. There just comes a time when people need to learn lessons on their own, even if that may include a fall of some sort.
Don't get discouraged if things get worse between the two of you before they get better, and that may happen.
Good Luck. 
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Thank you! I know you are exactly right. I just need to let her live her life and figure things out for herself. It just gets really hard when she calls or texts me to complain about the boyfriend or his family. But then if I suggest the guy get a job I am such a horrible monster. I never raised her to allow a guy to walk all over her the way he does. I wanted her to have the best life possible but I'm afraid that he will be her road block.