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Old Aug 20, 2016, 08:29 PM
tiger8 tiger8 is offline
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
You have to determine your own deal breakers for yourself. That was what I learned.
I won't be able to if I can't look at specifics. Thanks in any case

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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
I forget specifically which site that I had discovered a needs list, I'm positive it was under one that specifically addresses marriages. Needs are relationship needs. Things such as to be valued, to be heard, to be understood(or sincerely attempted to understand), financial compatibility, intimacy(separate from sexual intimacy), companionship, and the list went on. It was about 2 pages. I printed it and stuck it in a journal. My T, at the time, suggested understanding my needs before embarking on another relationship, post-divorce.

Hope that clarifies?
Can you find that again?

Also, I'm already seeing it'll contain a few vague words. What's companionship for example?

Lol about the last sentence... I can't understand them without experience that is also analyzed out properly. For that analysis, getting told about/reading up on specifics helps.
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