First off I'm sorry about your MCs. I had one years ago and it ruined me. Your hubbies mom sounds a lot like my bfs. She despises me. I tried for awhile but she is a stone wall. I'm BP and she is a trigger for me so I know now to just stay away.

One thing that caught my eye was how your hubby is neutral in this. Also reminds me of my bf. Your hubby needs to step in and stick up for you. I beg my bf to say something to his mom when she puts me down and he just says "you don't know her, it's better left unsaid". Well I don't care. He needs to speak up like your husband.

Would she be open to counseling? Perhaps having a mediator in between may help?

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