I just got out of a really messed up relationship with a woman my age. It was really bad and it literally ruined my life. I'm not going to go into details about it, I'll just say that this 20 year old girl started "pursuing" me when things started to get ugly with my ex. She was literally spamming my inbox with pictures and videos of her, sending me voice messages while she was out with her boyfriend, and things like that. The more she got close to me, the more I got away from my ex. I didn't decide to break up with my ex because of this girl, but I would lie if I said this beautiful 20 year old sending me pictures of her didn't affect me.