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Originally Posted by Mary123
My story is the following:
I met a guy five years ago and I started to fall for him. In the last three years my feelings for him started to become stronger.
I knew all the time that he liked somebody else, not me.
This year he was going to go as a missionary to another country. So, I decided to tell on the day I was going to say goodbye to him before I left how I felt.
It has been six months since this happened. To this day I have not been able to move on from this even if I know that by now I should be able to.
What would yo recommend me to do?
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Having cared about this man for so long, I am not surprised it is taking you some time to move on. One thing I would suggest is thinking over what characteristics you admired about him (you could write them down on paper). Physical and intellectual/emotional/spiritual. Then allow yourself to be open to the next person who comes along who also has those characteristics.