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Originally Posted by Seraphine
My gods. This op sounds just like my spouse and i. He has good days, a week or two at most, then suddenly behaves kind of in a malignant narcissist, childish way, making life miserable for everyone. Refuses to see a Dr even for an injury he needs to have attended before it causes permanent damage, and is about the laziest person I've ever known which leaves me burned out and not wanting to do anything because I'm the only one who keeps cooking and washing etc. It's so infuriating. But i feel too damaged to survive alone with kids so you know. I stay in misery instead. He constantly gambles and denies everyone else if nice things to pay for it.
Sorry. I know this isn't about me. Just feeling like someone can relate and needing to vent a little
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It's ok! It's all about relating here :-) . I'm so sorry! That situation sounds much worse than mine actually. I always feel that they act this way because it has a lot to do with their childhood (like a lot of us). You see with my situation, his parents never disciplined him and let him do whatever he wanted (such as if he didn't want to go to school anymore, they'd let him stop going to school, they constantly rewarded bad behavior, and things were easily handed to him) which I think could've caused his narcissism (that and he's an only child). So now he has become a self absorbed human being. Maybe that's the case with your husband [emoji53].
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