I moved to Phoenix from Minnesota when I was 20 (35 years ago) and lived there for 30 years. That was like a move to another country, so no I wouldn't move to another country. Besides I am in MN again for the last 3 years and am moving back to Phx in mid-September (if my mental health stays intact as I am scared to death over this new transition again). In the last couple years I have been "breaking down" when life changes happen; i.e. my dad dying, bad medication changes, etc have sent me to the hospital.

I keep wondering what happened to the strong me??????????