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Originally Posted by Bill3
What exactly do you want to say?
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i would like to let her know that i do in fact have feelings for her and that i am interested in advancing the relationship (now, whether or not i'm actually capable of having an actual relationship with someone right now is highly uncertain, but hey..).
i'd imagine that i would also have to come up with an explanation for dragging my feet. though when the truth is that i just completely lack experience and confidence, that wouldn't exactly draw her in..
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Originally Posted by Talthybius
You are the person that is most qualified to judge this situation. Your instincts sound spot on.
You blew the chance you had and we can't tell you if there are second chances.
How can she be under the illusion you will sweep her off her feet if the most romantic thing you are willing to do is help her walk her dog?
Maybe there are women out there who can overrule their instincts and that do go for beta males. But most don't.
Why are you texting? You aren't a 17 year old girl. Don't have a text relationship if you want a romantic relationship. Even this girls and women who do tons of texting, I doubt they dream about how wonderful it is to text with their prince charming.
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all very good points.
i guess i'm just wondering if it's at all possible in situations like this where things can be salvaged, despite one person's actions and inactions all but ruining the situation. my thin glimmer of hope is that she is still staying in touch and she was receptive to getting together to talk. i realize that could all just be "friend zone" type of stuff, but i guess i'll find out soon.