Hello tonydouglas: I see this is your first post here on PC. So, although you've already received several replies to this post, I'll say... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!

P.S. You know what they say about assuming... it makes an *** out of you & me. So my suggestion is: don't assume anything. Get together with this lady at your next opportunity & give it your best shot. So what if it's awkward? If she cares for you, she won't mind. She'll probably even be touched. If she doesn't you'll at least know where you stand.